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A Coaching Culture Is Not Produced by Training Managers in Coaching Skills

Rama Krishna · 22 Jul 2025 · 8 min read
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The coaching culture is one of the most widely aspired-to and least reliably achieved features of organisational development. Virtually every large organisation that takes its learning and development function seriously has described building a coaching culture as a priority at some point in the last decade. The majority of those organisations have invested in some combination of manager coaching skills training, internal coaching certification programmes, external coaching provision for senior leaders, and the integration of coaching behaviours into formal leadership competency frameworks. The gap between the investment and the outcome has been, in most cases, significant.

This gap is not primarily a function of insufficient investment or inadequate programme design. It is a function of a misunderstanding about what a coaching culture actually is, and specifically about the relationship between coaching as a discrete activity and coaching as a pervasive cultural orientation. Most organisational coaching culture initiatives are oriented toward producing more coaching: more people who have learned coaching skills, more formal coaching relationships, more coaching-oriented language in formal developmental processes. A genuine coaching culture is not primarily characterised by the prevalence of coaching conversations. It is characterised by the quality of the listening and inquiry that permeates every interaction in the organisation, whether or not that interaction is formally designated as a coaching conversation.

This distinction is consequential for how the investment is designed and where it is directed. Building more coaching capability does not, by itself, produce a coaching culture. Building the relational and conversational infrastructure that makes inquiry the default orientation of the organisation’s communication does.

The four features of genuine coaching cultures

Organisations that have genuinely achieved something that can be called a coaching culture, rather than an organisation with a coaching programme, consistently exhibit four features that distinguish them from the majority of organisations that have invested heavily in coaching without achieving the cultural shift.

The first feature is the genuine prevalence of curious questions over directive answers throughout the organisation, particularly among its senior leaders. A coaching culture is not constituted by the questions that coaches ask in formal coaching sessions. It is constituted by the questions that leaders ask in every conversation: in team meetings, in one-to-ones, in corridor interactions, in the moments when a direct report comes to them with a problem. The leader in a genuine coaching culture responds to “what should I do about this?” with “what have you tried?” and “what do you think?” and “what would the most effective outcome look like?” rather than with the immediate provision of the answer that proves their expertise. This shift, from answer-provision to inquiry facilitation, is the most important cultural shift available, and it is also the most difficult to produce because it requires leaders to resist the pull toward the behaviour that has been most rewarded in their careers: demonstrating their value through the quality of the answers they provide.

The second feature is the explicit treatment of mistakes as learning occasions rather than as performance failures to be managed. In genuine coaching cultures, when something goes wrong, the first question is “what can we learn from this?” and the answer to that question receives more organisational attention and more senior time than the attribution of accountability for the failure. This does not mean that accountability is absent. It means that the learning orientation is primary and the accountability orientation is secondary, which is the reverse of the priority in most organisations and which produces a fundamentally different relationship between people and the risks they take in their work.

The third feature is the deliberate separation of coaching conversations from performance evaluation conversations. One of the most consistent findings in the research on manager-as-coach effectiveness is that the integration of coaching and evaluation in the same relationship, which is the typical structure when an organisation builds coaching into the manager role, significantly reduces the quality of coaching available in that relationship. Coaching requires the psychological safety to be genuinely uncertain, to explore possibilities without commitment, to be honest about limitations and mistakes. This safety is substantially reduced in relationships where the same person who is coaching you is also making decisions about your career. Genuine coaching cultures find ways to create developmental relationships that are structurally separate from evaluative ones, whether through formal internal or external coaching provision or through the cultivation of peer coaching relationships that do not carry the power differential of the managerial relationship.

The fourth feature is the modelling of genuine coachability by senior leaders. The coaching culture that is produced primarily by the coaching capability of middle managers, with senior leaders maintaining the directive, answer-providing orientation that their positional authority makes available to them, is a fractured culture. People take their cues about what is valued from those with the most power, and senior leaders who are not visibly engaging in the learning and inquiry orientation that they are asking of their organisations are communicating a more powerful message than any coaching programme can override. The senior leader who asks for coaching input, who is visibly uncertain about things that matter, who demonstrates that they are still developing and learning, is the most powerful available reinforcement of the coaching culture. The one who provides coaching to others while being clearly above receiving it, is its most effective saboteur.

Why manager-as-coach training produces insufficient results

Manager coaching skills training is the most common single investment organisations make when trying to build a coaching culture, and it is the investment with the most disappointing return relative to expectation. The gap between the quality of most manager coaching skills programmes and the cultural shift they are asked to produce is significant enough to warrant analysis rather than simply improved programme quality.

The problem with manager coaching skills training as the primary lever for cultural change is structural rather than technical. Managers who attend coaching skills training are acquiring new capabilities within an unchanged organisational context. When they return to their teams, they are operating in an environment that has not changed: the performance management system still rewards results over process, the implicit norms about what effective management looks like still reward directive efficiency over facilitative investment, and the time pressure that makes coaching conversations feel like a luxury rather than a necessity is unchanged. The new coaching capability is competing with all of these unchanged contextual factors, and in most cases the contextual factors win.

This is not a universal finding. Some managers who acquire coaching skills do integrate them into their practice with genuine effectiveness, and their teams benefit visibly. But these are typically managers who had the dispositional orientation toward inquiry before they acquired the formal skill, who are working in sub-cultures that support the investment in developmental conversation, or who have the specific kind of developmental relationship with their own senior leaders that reinforces the practice. In the absence of these contextual supports, coaching skills training produces informed managers who do not substantially change their practice.

The intervention that produces more reliable cultural change combines skills training with the specific cultural and structural changes that make the application of those skills rewarding rather than costly. This means redesigning the performance management processes to explicitly value and assess coaching behaviour. It means creating protected time for the developmental conversations that coaching requires, rather than expecting them to be added to an unchanged workload. It means building the accountability structures that make visible whether the coaching culture aspiration is producing observable changes in how conversations happen throughout the organisation.

The specific role of psychological safety in coaching culture

Amy Edmondson’s research on psychological safety is directly relevant to the conditions that make genuine coaching culture possible, though the connection is not always made explicitly in coaching culture discussions. The coaching orientation, genuine inquiry into what someone thinks, what they have tried, what they believe is possible, requires that the person being asked those questions feels safe enough to answer honestly rather than strategically. In the absence of psychological safety, coaching questions produce strategic responses: the answer the person believes will be evaluated positively rather than the honest engagement with the question that genuine developmental conversation requires.

This means that psychological safety is not simply a beneficial feature of coaching culture. It is a prerequisite for it. The organisation that attempts to build coaching culture without building psychological safety is attempting to create genuine developmental conversation in a context where the incentive structure rewards managed communication over honest inquiry. The coaching conversations that result will look like coaching and feel somewhat like coaching and will not produce the genuine developmental engagement that coaching is designed to create, because the conditions that make that engagement possible have not been established.

A coaching culture is not an organisation where coaching happens. It is an organisation where curiosity is the default orientation: where questions are asked before answers are given, where uncertainty is expressed rather than managed, and where the space between knowing and not-knowing is treated as the most generative place available rather than as a gap to be filled as quickly as possible.

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