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No Ego, No Go! Elevate Your Leadership!

'Exploring Narcissistic Status Pursuit and Motivation to Lead'

I'm passionately curious about questioning the status quo and challenging conventional wisdom. One topic that frequently sparks intense discussions for me is the role of ego in achieving outstanding leadership performance.

In me, ego has been present as long as I can remember.  As a 10-year-old playing sports to win, a 14-year-old running for class monitor, an 18-year-old focussed on joining armed forces in first attempt, a cocky 23-year-old negotiating a raise and position, a 28-year-old pitching an idea to the board, and now after two decades of corporate career, as a seasoned facilitator & coach leading my company… “it” is always something that I have drawn strength & conviction from.

If you say you have no ego, you are at best a mediocre manager, my friend. Great Leadership requires greater ego.

But you can probably picture the reactions I receive when I casually assert that a strong ego is indispensable pre-requisite for leadership success.

In this writeup, I delve into the intricacies of ego in leadership, exploring its role in status pursuit, motivation, and the journey of leadership itself.

Narcissistic status pursuit and motivation to lead

In the realm of leadership, the concept of ego is often regarded with scepticism, if not outright disdain. However, there exists a nuanced perspective that suggests ego, when carefully cultivated and managed, can be a driving force behind exceptional leadership. While ego has garnered a reputation for arrogance and self-centredness, it also encompasses qualities such as confidence, ambition, and motivation.

Ego, in its simplest form, represents our self-centred ambition and desire for recognition and success. It manifests as the inner drive to surpass others, achieve greatness, and leave a lasting impact. From childhood aspirations to professional endeavours, ego permeates every facet of our lives, shaping our goals and influencing our actions.

The Ego Conundrum

Despite its pervasive presence, ego has garnered a negative connotation in contemporary discourse. Terms like "big ego" and "egotistical" are often used pejoratively to describe individuals perceived as overly self-absorbed or arrogant. However, this one-dimensional portrayal fails to capture the multifaceted nature of ego and its potential benefits in leadership.

Ego and Leadership | The Research Landscape

Contrary to popular belief, ego is not antithetical to effective leadership; rather, it can serve as a catalyst for success, it is therefore a pre-requisite to leadership success.

While the relationship between ego, narcissism, and leadership is widely acknowledged, empirical research on this subject remains scarce. A study conducted at a Romanian University examined the relationship between ego, narcissism, status pursuit strategies, and motivation to lead. The findings revealed a significant correlation between ego, status pursuit, and various types of leadership motivation.

Ego, when channelled constructively, can fuel ambition, drive innovation, and inspire others to achieve greatness.

Navigating the Ego's Terrain

Like a double-edged sword, ego can either propel us to greatness or lead us astray.

Un-channelled ego can veer into self-destructive territory, undermining leadership effectiveness and jeopardizing organizational success. It is essential for leaders to navigate their ego with mindfulness and self-awareness. Three critical phases along the leadership journey—Aspire, Success, and Failure—highlight the pivotal role of ego in shaping leadership behavior. Whether fueling ambitious goals, basking in accolades, or weathering setbacks, ego influences how leaders perceive themselves and interact with others.

Recognizing the warning signs of ego overdrive is paramount in maintaining leadership integrity. Symptoms such as aggression, comparison, incessant validation-seeking, and a tendency to dismiss others' contributions signify a loss of control over one's ego. Leaders must remain vigilant and strive to balance confidence with humility, ambition with empathy, and self-assuredness with receptivity to feedback.

Nurturing a Healthy Ego: A Guide to Achieving Peak Performance

In the pursuit of peak performance and effective leadership, cultivating a healthy ego is essential. A healthy ego serves as a catalyst for success, driving individuals to achieve their goals while maintaining a balanced perspective and genuine concern for others.

Let’s explore some practical strategies for nurturing a healthy ego and leveraging its power to drive positive change and organizational growth.

1. Self-Awareness:

Self-awareness forms the foundation of a healthy ego. Leaders must cultivate a deep understanding of their strengths, weaknesses, aspirations, fears and motivations. Through introspection and reflection, they can identify areas for growth and development while leveraging their strengths to drive performance. By acknowledging their limitations and embracing vulnerability, leaders can foster authentic connections with others and build trust within their teams.

2. Collective Purpose:

Leadership is not a solitary endeavor; it requires a collective sense of purpose and shared vision. A healthy ego recognizes the importance of collaboration and teamwork in achieving organizational goals. Leaders must align their personal ambitions with the broader mission and values of their organization, fostering a sense of unity and cohesion among team members. By championing a shared purpose, leaders can inspire others to contribute their talents and expertise towards a common goal, driving collective success.

3. Genuine Concern for Others:

A healthy ego extends beyond self-interest to encompass genuine concern for the well-being and success of others. Leaders must prioritize empathy, compassion, and inclusivity in their interactions with team members, stakeholders, and the broader community. By fostering a culture of support and mentorship, leaders can empower others to reach their full potential and contribute to organizational growth. By recognizing and celebrating the achievements of others, leaders demonstrate humility and generosity, strengthening relationships and building a positive organizational culture.

4. Balanced Perspective:

Maintaining a balanced perspective is essential for navigating the complexities of leadership. A healthy ego acknowledges both successes and failures as opportunities for growth and learning. Leaders must remain open-minded and receptive to feedback, seeking diverse perspectives and insights from others. By embracing humility and curiosity, leaders can continuously evolve and adapt to changing circumstances, driving innovation and resilience within their organizations.

5. Harnessing the Power of Ego:

Finally, leaders must harness the power of ego to drive positive change and foster organizational growth. A healthy ego fuels ambition, inspires confidence, and drives individuals to overcome challenges and achieve their goals. By channeling ego in service of a greater purpose, leaders can transcend self-interest and embrace a broader vision of leadership. By leading with integrity, authenticity, and a genuine commitment to making a difference, leaders can inspire others to follow their example and contribute to a brighter future.

Embracing Ego as a Positive Trait

In a world where ego is often vilified, it's time to embrace it as a positive trait—one that is essential for exceptional leadership. Remember, ego is not just a facet of leadership—it's the cornerstone of success. By embracing its power, harnessing its potential, and navigating its complexities with mindfulness and self-awareness, leaders can unlock new levels of achievement and drive organizational growth.

So, climb up your ego, but ensure it propels you forward rather than holding you back.

After all, leadership is not a 'Miss Congeniality' contest—it's about courage, conviction, resilience, fortitude and the relentless pursuit of greatness. 


RK (Rama Krishna) is a Master Coach | Facilitator | Curious Human, with three decades of Leadership, Learning & Organisation Development experience, across industries.

He is Founder of ProventusHR - A Bespoke Learning & HR Advisory

He writes occasionally and can be reached at:

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